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A Memorable Family Celebration in Sunny Puerto Vallarta: Double Birthday Bash at Marriott Resort

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After the pandemic, our family had the pleasure of celebrating two special birthdays in the vibrant, sun-drenched paradise of Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. With 20 family members gathered at the luxurious Marriott Puerto Vallarta Resort & Spa for five unforgettable days, we commemorated my two-year-old grandson’s birthday and his mother’s birthday in grand style. The resort boasts four restaurants, tequila bar, deli/coffee shop and an ice cream shop.

Day 1: Arrival and Warm Welcome

Our adventure began with a warm and sunny welcome at the Puerto Vallarta airport. The Marriott Puerto Vallarta Resort & Spa, known for its excellent service and beautiful beachfront location, arranged comfortable transportation for our large group. Upon arrival, we were greeted with refreshing drinks and friendly smiles, setting the tone for the rest of our stay.

After settling into our spacious, ocean-view rooms, we gathered for a relaxed dinner at the resort’s flagship restaurant, Las Casitas. With a stunning view of the sunset over Banderas Bay, we enjoyed a variety of local dishes, from fresh ceviche to delectable shrimp tacos. The children delighted in their first taste of authentic Mexican cuisine, while the adults savored the resort’s signature margaritas. As the sunset and the kiddies settled down for the night, the younger crowd headed downstairs to the swanky Ceviche & Tequila Bar for some shots, fresh ceviche and more authentic flavors of Jalisco.

Day 2: Beach Fun and Birthday Celebrations

Our second day was dedicated to enjoying the resort’s swim-up bar and luxurious resort style cabanas as the pristine private beach was closed due to a gator alert. The little ones played in the spacious pools and built fictitious sandcastles, while the adults lounged under the shade of palapas, taking in the spectacular scenery. The resort staff went above and beyond to ensure everyone had a wonderful time, providing beach toys for the kids and refreshing drinks for the grown-ups.

In the afternoon, we celebrated my grandson’s second birthday with a special party by the pool. The resort’s event team decorated the area with colorful balloons and setup a table for the cake.  A delightful construction theme cake, custom-made by a local pastry chef, was the highlight of the celebration. Watching his eyes light up with joy as we sang “Happy Birthday” was a moment we will all cherish forever.

Dinner was superb at Mikado’s, where the staff rendered excellent service along with a scrumptious palette of flavors with Asian fusions and the teppanyaki chefs put on a show stopping performance for the two kids in our party. 

Day 3: Exploring Puerto Vallarta

On the third day, we ventured beyond the resort to explore the vibrant town of Puerto Vallarta. We took a guided tour of the historic downtown area, known for its charming cobblestone streets and picturesque Malecon boardwalk. The family enjoyed shopping for souvenirs and tasting local street food, from tacos al pastor to sweet churros. Everyone was thrilled by the street performers and the colorful art installations along the Malecon. Lunch was at Nosh Sunset Bar & Bites a beachfront restaurant, where we savored fresh seafood tacos and took in the lively atmosphere.

Our evening at the “Rhythms of the Night” show in Puerto Vallarta was nothing short of magical. Set against the secluded beauty of Las Caletas Cove, the journey began with a scenic boat ride across Banderas Bay. As we arrived, the cove was illuminated by torches, creating an enchanting atmosphere. The dinner buffet, featuring a variety of delectable dishes, was a delightful prelude to the main show. The captivating performance, featuring a mesmerizing blend of music, dance, and acrobatics, left us all in awe. This unforgettable night under the stars was a highlight of our trip, creating lasting memories for the entire family.

Photo Courtesy: Vallarta Adventures

Day 4: Adventure and Relaxation

Our fourth day was a mix of adventure and relaxation. Some family members opted for an exhilarating zip-lining tour through the lush jungles surrounding Puerto Vallarta, while others chose to unwind at the resort’s tranquil Ohtli Spa. The spa’s soothing treatments, inspired by ancient Huichol healing practices, provided the perfect escape. The Ohtli Spa has some of the best masseuse in the area. Our masseuse was delightful and very versed in the practice allowing us to unwind and fall asleep to the soothing feel of the deep tissue massage.

In the evening, we celebrated with a fabuleux dinner at Porfirio’s Restaurante known for its vibrant Mexican flavors and accents. The chefs prepared an exquisite multi-course meal featuring local specialties, paired with fine wines. The onsite mariachis and sophisticated upscale environment created a magical ambiance, making the night truly unforgettable.

NOSH Bites
Porfirio’s Restaurante
OHTLI SPA

Day 5: Farewell and Fond Memories

As our five-day celebration came to an end, we spent our final morning enjoying the resort’s amenities. The kids had a blast at the Kid’s Club, while the adults enjoyed one last swim in the infinity pool. Before heading to the airport, we gathered for a family breakfast, reminiscing about the wonderful memories we created together.

Our stay at the Marriott Resort in Puerto Vallarta was nothing short of perfect. The combination of stunning natural beauty, luxurious accommodations, and impeccable service made it an ideal setting for celebrating the birthdays of my grandson and his mother. This trip will forever hold a special place in our hearts, a reminder of the love and joy shared with family in one of the world’s most beautiful destinations.

MARRIOTT PV RESORT & SPA

Until next time … Adios Puerto Vallarta!!!

A Brief Summer Comprehensive Cleaning Guide

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“Summer-Ready: The Ultimate Guide to Cleaning Your Beach House”

“Transform Your Seaside Retreat into a Sparkling Summer Haven”

As the warm breezes and sunny days of summer approach, it’s time to ready your beach house for the season. A thorough cleaning will ensure your retreat is fresh, inviting, and ready for countless summer memories. Here’s a step-by-step guide to get your beach house sparkling clean.

1. Declutter and Organize

Begin by removing any clutter that has accumulated over the off-season. Go through each room and gather items that no longer serve a purpose. Donate, recycle, or store away off-season items to create a more spacious and serene environment.

2. Deep Clean Surfaces

Start with a deep clean of all surfaces. Dust and wipe down furniture, light fixtures, and ceiling fans. For air vents, use the homemade disinfectant with a soft cloth and clean the grates inside and outside. Pay special attention to high-touch areas like doorknobs and light switches. Use Method All-Purpose Cleaner to clean these surfaces in an array of scents from peony, rose, lavender and so many more. These products will ensure your home is free from dust and grime.

3. Refresh Floors and Carpets

Sweep and vacuum all floors to remove sand and debris. If your beach house has carpets, consider renting a carpet cleaner or hiring a professional service to give them a deep clean. For hardwood, use Method Daily Wood Cleaner, a plant-based wood cleaner to mop the floor. For tile floors, use the homemade disinfectant to restore their shine. If the tile grout is filthy, use Soft Scrub with a scrub brush to remove the embedded dirt. It may take more than one application, but it works wonderfully. Open the windows and allow the scent to dissipate and the fresh air to dry the floor. After the embedded dirt is removed, keep the floors clean by daily wiping the floors with homemade disinfectant to avoid another buildup of dirt.

4. Air Out and Clean Upholstery

Use sunny days to air out cushions, pillows, and mattresses. This helps eliminate any musty odors and refreshes the fabric. Vacuum upholstered furniture thoroughly and clean any stains with appropriate cleaning solutions. Wash all pillow covers, mattress covers, throws, and blankets with Beach Sage plant-based Method Laundry Detergent for a beautiful ocean scent.

5. Kitchen and Bathrooms

In the kitchen, clean out the refrigerator, pantry, and cabinets, discarding expired items. Use baking soda and hot water to wipe the insides of the refrigerator and freezer. Wipe down countertops, appliances, and sinks with the homemade disinfectant cleaner, followed by Mrs. Meyers Multi-Surface Everyday Cleaner as a finishing touch. Although Mrs. Meyers is not a disinfectant cleaner, it is a natural cleaner that leaves the home smelling lovely. Personally, the peony and rose scents smell delightful.  For the bathrooms, scrub tiles, grout, and fixtures with the homemade disinfectant cleaner and replace old shower curtains and liners. Ensure all towels are free of holes and can stand up to another season; otherwise, replace them with new ones.

6. Windows and Doors

Clean windows inside and out to let in maximum sunlight. Dust and wipe down windowsills and tracks. Check screens for any holes and repair as needed. Clean sliding door tracks to ensure they operate smoothly. The best cleaner for windows and sliding door tracks is a homemade disinfectant that removes all the nasty stuff from the tracks. The recipe is below. I use it daily to clean showers; it helps keep the bathroom spotless and is cheap to make. Need a homemade disinfectant cleaner? Here is a simple ingredient disinfectant cleaner: pour 16 ounces of hydrogen peroxide, 16 ounces of 70% isopropyl alcohol, 2 tablespoons of white vinegar, and 2 tablespoons of blue Dawn dishwashing soap. Mix all the ingredients in a spray bottle and start cleaning!

7. Outdoor Areas

Finally, don’t forget your outdoor spaces. Sweep porches, patios, and decks, and hose down outdoor furniture. Check for any needed repairs and address them promptly.

With these steps, your beach house will be spotless and ready for summer fun. Enjoy your freshly cleaned haven and make the most of the sunny days ahead!

If there’s a heaven for me, I’m sure it has a beach attached to it.

-Jimmy Buffett

Preserving Liberty: A Vital Endeavor

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The preservation of liberty is a cornerstone of any thriving society. The American Constitution separates the power of government into three branches: the legislative, whose job is to make the laws; the executive branch charged with executing the laws, and the judicial branch, which was chosen to interpret the laws as written not from a personal stance. American liberty seems to be at stake these days because one branch is not focusing on its purpose!

Eternal vigilance is the price of liberty. – Thomas Jefferson

This enduring truth reminds us that freedom must be actively safeguarded through informed citizenship and unwavering commitment to democratic principles. Each generation bears the responsibility to uphold and defend these liberties, ensuring that future generations can enjoy the same rights and freedoms. In an ever-changing world, our dedication to protecting liberty is crucial, reinforcing the foundations of justice, equality, and individual rights that define a free society.

God Bless America!

Girlfriends’ 65th Birthday Trip to Mayan Riviera: A Perfect Blend of Adventure and Togetherness

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Turning 65 is a milestone worth celebrating, and what better way to do it than with a lifelong girlfriend collective in one of the world’s most beautiful destinations? Recently, a close-knit collective of girlfriends decided to mark one Chica’s 65th birthday with an unforgettable trip to the Mayan Riviera, a stretch of Caribbean coastline on Mexico’s northeastern Yucatán Peninsula. This sun-soaked paradise offered the perfect blend of relaxation, adventure, and camaraderie, making it an ideal choice for such a momentous occasion.

Day 1: Arrival and Beachfront Bliss

The excitement was palpable we touched down at Cancun International Airport and took our private limousine service to the Mayan Riviera to luxuriate on its stunning beaches. Greeted by the warm Mexican sun and the rhythmic sound of waves crashing on the shore, we knew we were in for a treat as the vast doors to the resort slowly opened to lush greenery. Our home for the week is the luxurious all-inclusive adults-only resort of UNICO 20°87° – a member of the Leading Hotels of the world with stunning panoramic ocean view suites and direct access to powdery white sands.

UNICO 20°87

After settling in, the ladies wasted no time hitting the beach. With their toes in the sand and tropical drinks in hand, they lounged under linen-draped cabanas with bottle service and scrumptious appetizers, catching up on life and reminiscing about their many shared memories. The evening was capped off with dinner at Mi Carisa, an ode to the romantic coastlines and flavors of the Mediterranean, where we toasted to our enduring friendship and the adventures ahead. No evening should end on vacay without music and cocktails, so we headed over to the Cuban-inspired Palmera Lounge for some cocktails and boisterous live entertainment before retiring for the night.

Day 2: Fun in the Mayan Sun

Day two, we enjoyed a light breakfast and coffee at the Parisian-inspired Inez Café with a delicious palate of fresh pastries, coffee, smoothies, bite-size omelets, and freshly squeezed juices, and we dare not mention the delicious fresh baked cookies, macaroons, and ice cream served from 6 am to midnight daily. Next, we returned to our reserved cabana for a day of bottle-popping champagne, appetizers, tons of relaxation, and fun while enjoying breathtaking views. We even danced with the private mixologist who served specialty-concocted tequila shots through a syringe drop. Time flies when one is having so much fun. Before we knew it, it was time to return to our suites to rest up and get dressed for a private dinner at Mura House, delivering Asian flavors through three different styles of Japanese cuisine-teppanyaki, yakitori, and sushi. Of course, no night ends without entertainment and cocktails, so off to Bar BaLam for some of its infused mystique powerful spirits before catching some Z-z-z-z-z-z’s for the evening.  

Mura House Appetizers

Day 3: Tulum Charter

Day three brought a sense of adventure as we prepared to set sail along the lush canals of Puerto Aventuras, feasting on steak and lobster aboard a private catamaran sailing to Playa La Bocana, an enchanting cove boasting crystal-clear waters before heading back to port. However, that excitement was dimmed as the captain called off the adventure due to high winds on the ocean. So, it was back to bottle popping at our private cabana, individual spa services at the luxurious Esencia Spa & Salon, and fitness classes of yoga, Pilates, and cross-training at the fitness center, all while reminiscing about swimming alongside colorful fish and graceful sea turtles, for a sense of wonder and joy that transcends age on that missed private yacht. After popping bottles all morning, we retreated to a beachfront lunch at 20.87 Restaurant serving up a huge variety of burgers, salads, sushi, cervices, and pasta to please any discriminating palate.

Dr. Ayeni & Dr. Rodriguez
Dr. Rodriguez & Birthday Chica Madam Esq.
Dr. Rodriguez
Collective Beni

Late afternoon, we indulged in a day of pampering at the resort’s world-class spa. Massages, facials, and aromatherapy body treatments left them feeling rejuvenated and glowing. The serene atmosphere of the spa provided a perfect opportunity for quiet reflection and relaxation and rounded out a perfect day for the ladies before evening festivities. Personally, this was the best pedicure and manicure of my life, total luxury, worth every penny of the $105. The workers are engaging and work hard at this spa. Yes, the spa prices are extortionate, so be prepared if you ever venture to UNICO 20°87°. Lastly, please bring U.S. dollars to tip because it has more leverage than the pesos.

Day 4/5: Relaxation at One’s Own Leisure

For the next two days, we spent time relaxing in the hydro tubs on our suite deck and cabana stints during the early day by the pool. In the evening, we headed to a lively dinner at 20.87 Restaurant and Cueva Siete known for its Yucatecan Mexican gastronomy to sip, wine, champagne, and tequila, and celebrate our bond. Each night concluded with a drink at one of the bars or dancing and laughter as we marveled together in a first-time experience, a silent nightclub with headphones dancing into the night feeling a deeper connection to one another.

Day 6: Beachfront Farewell Fiesta Dinner

Collective Farewell Dinner

As our trip neared its end, we spent a leisurely day shopping and exploring UNICO’s Promenade Mall for gifts to take home for ourselves, friends, and family. We picked up unique mementos and enjoyed a delicious lunch on the beachfront. The afternoon was spent lounging by the sea, swimming in the crystal-clear waters, and snapping photos to capture each magical moment. Of course, bottles of ice-cold champagne were still flowing. Before our private all-white farewell dinner, we met for a photo opportunity on the beach, all decked out in white attire set upon the crystal-clear turquoise green-blue waters of the ocean and gorgeous sky setting with perfect clouds. The finale evening was marked by a festive farewell fiesta on the beachfront and an exclusive private dinner at the restaurant reserved only for our collective. The private chef prepared a sumptuous 3-course feast of Mediterranean flavors with something for pescatarians, vegans, and meat lovers amongst the group. The night was filled with laughter, heartfelt toasts, and dancing under the stars, celebrating not just Chica’s 65th birthday, but a lifetime of friendship and memories.

Collective Bliss

 Day 7: Reflecting on an Unforgettable Journey

As we packed our bags and prepared to return home, we each took a moment to reflect on this incredible journey. The Mayan Riviera adventure was everything we dreamed of and more—a perfect blend of relaxation, adventure, and togetherness. We left with hearts full of gratitude, vowing to continue celebrating life’s milestones together, no matter where our adventures might take us next.

THE GIRLFRIEND COLLECTIVE

The Mayan Riviera provided the backdrop for an unforgettable birthday celebration for lifelong friends, allowing us to return home with a renewed sense of joy, love, and appreciation for the gift of friendship. Here’s to many more adventures and memories to come! Until next time, love you Mayan Riviera! Thanks for the beautiful memories!

Honoring Remarkable Men on Father’s Day: A Celebration of Love and Wisdom

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Becoming a father turns ordinary men into extraordinary individuals! Let’s celebrate Father’s Day by honoring the incredible dads who enrich our lives with love and wisdom. Today is a moment to reflect on the guiding hands, supportive shoulders, and endless patience they offer. Whether your father is near or far, express gratitude for their unwavering presence and sacrifices. Let’s cherish the memories, the laughter, and the lessons that shape us. To all fathers, stepfathers, grandfathers, and father figures—thank you for being our superheroes. Your strength inspires us, your kindness uplifts us, and your love binds us together. Although my father has transitioned to the next realm; daddy was always my anchor in any storm.

A father is your anchor in life’s stormy seas. Unknown

Fabric from which we are conceived;
Automatic acceptance;
Time is never a problem;
Honor him all the days of your life;
Everlasting love; and
Remarkable example of a real man!

Happy Father’s Day to all the remarkable men from coast to coast!

Savor the Seasonal Delight of Soft-Shell Crabs: A Palate-Pleasing Treat

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The other day, I indulged in a scrumptious delicacy, the soft-shell crab at Surfrider’s Bayville location in Norfolk, Virginia. The location sits on a idyllic section of the Chesapeake Bay which houses a portion of the Navy’s Joint Expeditionary Base. One could sit here for hours and hours just staring into space. Soft-shell crabs, a delicacy cherished by seafood enthusiasts, are blue crabs that have recently molted their old exoskeleton and are still soft. This unique feature makes them edible, offering a tender, juicy bite.

Not only are soft-shell crabs delicious, but they are also a versatile ingredient in the kitchen. Soft-shell crabs can be prepared in various ways. Each method highlights the delicate texture and flavor of the crab. A popular preparation is to flash fry lightly coated soft-shell crabs in seasoned flour until golden brown, which creates a crispy exterior yet a juicy, succulent interior. Served with a squeeze of lemon or a tangy aioli, fried soft-shell crabs are a true delight.

The shedding shell process is fascinating and occurs several times a year. During the shedding period, the crab hides in the sand to avoid predators until their new shell hardens. This brief window of vulnerability is when they are harvested, providing a limited but much sought-after treat for seafood lovers.

Blue Crabs

Grilling is another excellent way to enjoy these crabs. A simple marinade of olive oil, garlic, and fresh herbs enhances the sweetness of the crab. Grilled to perfection, they can be served over a fresh salad or as part of a seafood platter, making for a light yet flavorful meal. Here is an excellent and scrumptious recipe from a 2012 edition of the New York Food Journal which is divine.

Soft-shell crabs are a treat for the palate, not to mention their essential nutrients. They are rich in protein, omega-3 fatty acids, and various vitamins and minerals, making them a healthy addition to any diet.

The seasonal and highly perishable, soft-shell crabs are a fleeting pleasure, best enjoyed fresh. Ask any seafood aficionado, and they will proclaim that the soft-shell crab’s unique flavor and texture make them a must-try. Soft-shell crabs are a delightful taste of the ocean’s bounty whether fried, grilled, or on a brioche bun.

If you are a crab lover, make sure you grab some soft-shells crabs between the end of April through mid-September.

Bon Appetit!

ALL HAIL THE QUEEN

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These words come to mind when I think of the word Mother:

M is MUNIFICENT
O is OPPORTUNITY 
T is TRUST
H is HALCYON
E is for ENDEARING 
R is for RESILIENCE 

A Mother is generous with her time because she is a child’s biggest motivator. After all, GOD entrusted you with the opportunity of a lifetime to mold one of his creations. Therefore, a child trusts a mother to do the right thing; sometimes, that involves placing a child’s needs above personal needs. Every child needs halcyon days of youth. Remember, a motherhood club is an endearing place that some never get to embrace, so wear that crown honorably. If you cannot be a mother for whatever reason, help carry the torch of one who has fallen because it takes a Village and sometimes a Vineyard to raise responsible kids in this world. Lastly, a mother needs to bounce back from tough times. Remember that a young, impressionable mind is watching your every step. Ensure you give that child the right tools to bounce back from anything life throws at their feet.  

Ask any mother; motherhood is not for the weak, so be thrilled that you are honored today by those you paved the way for yesterday. 

Don’t forget to remember all our Queens who have transitioned to the next realm. We love, honor, and, most of all, miss their essence and presence. Thank you, our beloved ancestor Queens, for paving our stones. 

Happy Mother’s Day, Queens! 

HOW TO SPEND A SPLENDID DAY AT THE BEACH

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Spending a day at the beach is perfect for soaking up some much-needed sun. Rays from the sun can be incredibly rejuvenating, and spending time in the sun can boost your mood, energy, and Vitamin D levels. Of course, safety is essential when sunbathing, so be sure to wear sunscreen and take shade in a cabana or under a beach umbrella or tent when needed. Check out Business & Pleasure for some of the trendiest chic cabanas, tents, and umbrellas which offer tons of protection from the sun.

Life is a beach; I’m just playing in the sand..

Another great thing about the beach is the chance to swim in the ocean. The ocean is a vast and mysterious place, full of fascinating creatures and beautiful sights, so have fun, but always be aware of that factor. Whether you are a seasonal swimmer or dipping your toes in the water, like me, there is something magical about being in the ocean.

Perhaps, like me, you are looking for more active beach fun; if so, there are plenty of beach activities to enjoy. Indulge in a game of beach volleyball, build sandcastles, parasailing, or surfing. And, if you are really feeling adventurous, rent a kayak or paddleboard and explore the ocean from a new perspective.

Of course, spending a day at the beach is about more than just the activities. It is the perfect place and time to unwind and relax. Grab a great summer read, a beach blanket, and a delicious picnic spread, and enjoy the peaceful sound of the waves with no care in the world. If you are in the Hilton Head/Bluffton area and not in the mood for packing lunch or beach gear, check out coastalpicnicrentals.com and let them prepare your space on the beach for two glorious hours with lunch included. The catered lunch is scrumptious, and the beach setup is gorgeous. Or, if you are a social person, you can chat with other beach goers and make new dinner friends.

No matter how you spend your time at the beach, there is no denying that a day at the beach is a special and memorable experience. So, pack your sunscreen, grab your beach towel, and head to the beach for a day of fun, relaxation, and adventure.

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