The preservation of liberty is a cornerstone of any thriving society. The American Constitution separates the power of government into three branches: the legislative, whose job is to make the laws; the executive branch charged with executing the laws, and the judicial branch, which was chosen to interpret the laws as written not from a personal stance. American liberty seems to be at stake these days because one branch is not focusing on its purpose!
Eternal vigilance is the price of liberty. – Thomas Jefferson
This enduring truth reminds us that freedom must be actively safeguarded through informed citizenship and unwavering commitment to democratic principles. Each generation bears the responsibility to uphold and defend these liberties, ensuring that future generations can enjoy the same rights and freedoms. In an ever-changing world, our dedication to protecting liberty is crucial, reinforcing the foundations of justice, equality, and individual rights that define a free society.
Turning 65 is a milestone worth celebrating, and what better way to do it than with a lifelong girlfriend collective in one of the world’s most beautiful destinations? Recently, a close-knit collective of girlfriends decided to mark one Chica’s 65th birthday with an unforgettable trip to the Mayan Riviera, a stretch of Caribbean coastline on Mexico’s northeastern Yucatán Peninsula. This sun-soaked paradise offered the perfect blend of relaxation, adventure, and camaraderie, making it an ideal choice for such a momentous occasion.
Day 1: Arrival and Beachfront Bliss
The excitement was palpable we touched down at Cancun International Airport and took our private limousine service to the Mayan Riviera to luxuriate on its stunning beaches. Greeted by the warm Mexican sun and the rhythmic sound of waves crashing on the shore, we knew we were in for a treat as the vast doors to the resort slowly opened to lush greenery. Our home for the week is the luxurious all-inclusive adults-only resort of UNICO 20°87° – a member of the Leading Hotels of the world with stunning panoramic ocean view suites and direct access to powdery white sands.
UNICO 20°87
After settling in, the ladies wasted no time hitting the beach. With their toes in the sand and tropical drinks in hand, they lounged under linen-draped cabanas with bottle service and scrumptious appetizers, catching up on life and reminiscing about their many shared memories. The evening was capped off with dinner at Mi Carisa, an ode to the romantic coastlines and flavors of the Mediterranean, where we toasted to our enduring friendship and the adventures ahead. No evening should end on vacay without music and cocktails, so we headed over to the Cuban-inspired Palmera Lounge for some cocktails and boisterous live entertainment before retiring for the night.
Day 2: Fun in the Mayan Sun
Day two, we enjoyed a light breakfast and coffee at the Parisian-inspired Inez Café with a delicious palate of fresh pastries, coffee, smoothies, bite-size omelets, and freshly squeezed juices, and we dare not mention the delicious fresh baked cookies, macaroons, and ice cream served from 6 am to midnight daily. Next, we returned to our reserved cabana for a day of bottle-popping champagne, appetizers, tons of relaxation, and fun while enjoying breathtaking views. We even danced with the private mixologist who served specialty-concocted tequila shots through a syringe drop. Time flies when one is having so much fun. Before we knew it, it was time to return to our suites to rest up and get dressed for a private dinner at Mura House, delivering Asian flavors through three different styles of Japanese cuisine-teppanyaki, yakitori, and sushi. Of course, no night ends without entertainment and cocktails, so off to Bar BaLam for some of its infused mystique powerful spirits before catching some Z-z-z-z-z-z’s for the evening.
Mura House Appetizers
Day 3: Tulum Charter
Day three brought a sense of adventure as we prepared to set sail along the lush canals of Puerto Aventuras, feasting on steak and lobster aboard a private catamaran sailing to Playa La Bocana, an enchanting cove boasting crystal-clear waters before heading back to port. However, that excitement was dimmed as the captain called off the adventure due to high winds on the ocean. So, it was back to bottle popping at our private cabana, individual spa services at the luxurious Esencia Spa & Salon, and fitness classes of yoga, Pilates, and cross-training at the fitness center, all while reminiscing about swimming alongside colorful fish and graceful sea turtles, for a sense of wonder and joy that transcends age on that missed private yacht. After popping bottles all morning, we retreated to a beachfront lunch at 20.87 Restaurant serving up a huge variety of burgers, salads, sushi, cervices, and pasta to please any discriminating palate.
Dr. Ayeni & Dr. Rodriguez
Dr. Rodriguez & Birthday Chica Madam Esq.
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Late afternoon, we indulged in a day of pampering at the resort’s world-class spa. Massages, facials, and aromatherapy body treatments left them feeling rejuvenated and glowing. The serene atmosphere of the spa provided a perfect opportunity for quiet reflection and relaxation and rounded out a perfect day for the ladies before evening festivities. Personally, this was the best pedicure and manicure of my life, total luxury, worth every penny of the $105. The workers are engaging and work hard at this spa. Yes, the spa prices are extortionate, so be prepared if you ever venture to UNICO 20°87°. Lastly, please bring U.S. dollars to tip because it has more leverage than the pesos.
Day 4/5: Relaxation at One’s Own Leisure
For the next two days, we spent time relaxing in the hydro tubs on our suite deck and cabana stints during the early day by the pool. In the evening, we headed to a lively dinner at 20.87 Restaurant and Cueva Siete known for its Yucatecan Mexican gastronomy to sip, wine, champagne, and tequila, and celebrate our bond. Each night concluded with a drink at one of the bars or dancing and laughter as we marveled together in a first-time experience, a silent nightclub with headphones dancing into the night feeling a deeper connection to one another.
Day 6: Beachfront Farewell Fiesta Dinner
Collective Farewell Dinner
As our trip neared its end, we spent a leisurely day shopping and exploring UNICO’s Promenade Mall for gifts to take home for ourselves, friends, and family. We picked up unique mementos and enjoyed a delicious lunch on the beachfront. The afternoon was spent lounging by the sea, swimming in the crystal-clear waters, and snapping photos to capture each magical moment. Of course, bottles of ice-cold champagne were still flowing. Before our private all-white farewell dinner, we met for a photo opportunity on the beach, all decked out in white attire set upon the crystal-clear turquoise green-blue waters of the ocean and gorgeous sky setting with perfect clouds. The finale evening was marked by a festive farewell fiesta on the beachfront and an exclusive private dinner at the restaurant reserved only for our collective. The private chef prepared a sumptuous 3-course feast of Mediterranean flavors with something for pescatarians, vegans, and meat lovers amongst the group. The night was filled with laughter, heartfelt toasts, and dancing under the stars, celebrating not just Chica’s 65th birthday, but a lifetime of friendship and memories.
Collective Bliss
Day 7: Reflecting on an Unforgettable Journey
As we packed our bags and prepared to return home, we each took a moment to reflect on this incredible journey. The Mayan Riviera adventure was everything we dreamed of and more—a perfect blend of relaxation, adventure, and togetherness. We left with hearts full of gratitude, vowing to continue celebrating life’s milestones together, no matter where our adventures might take us next.
THE GIRLFRIEND COLLECTIVE
The Mayan Riviera provided the backdrop for an unforgettable birthday celebration for lifelong friends, allowing us to return home with a renewed sense of joy, love, and appreciation for the gift of friendship. Here’s to many more adventures and memories to come! Until next time, love you Mayan Riviera! Thanks for the beautiful memories!
Becoming a father turns ordinary men into extraordinary individuals! Let’s celebrate Father’s Day by honoring the incredible dads who enrich our lives with love and wisdom. Today is a moment to reflect on the guiding hands, supportive shoulders, and endless patience they offer. Whether your father is near or far, express gratitude for their unwavering presence and sacrifices. Let’s cherish the memories, the laughter, and the lessons that shape us. To all fathers, stepfathers, grandfathers, and father figures—thank you for being our superheroes. Your strength inspires us, your kindness uplifts us, and your love binds us together. Although my father has transitioned to the next realm; daddy was always my anchor in any storm.
A father is your anchor in life’s stormy seas. Unknown
Fabric from which we are conceived; Automatic acceptance; Time is never a problem; Honor him all the days of your life; Everlasting love; and Remarkable example of a real man!
Happy Father’s Day to all the remarkable men from coast to coast!
The other day, I indulged in a scrumptious delicacy, the soft-shell crab at Surfrider’s Bayville location in Norfolk, Virginia. The location sits on a idyllic section of the Chesapeake Bay which houses a portion of the Navy’s Joint Expeditionary Base. One could sit here for hours and hours just staring into space.Soft-shell crabs, a delicacy cherished by seafood enthusiasts, are blue crabs that have recently molted their old exoskeleton and are still soft. This unique feature makes them edible, offering a tender, juicy bite.
Not only are soft-shell crabs delicious, but they are also a versatile ingredient in the kitchen. Soft-shell crabs can be prepared in various ways. Each method highlights the delicate texture and flavor of the crab. A popular preparation is to flash fry lightly coated soft-shell crabs in seasoned flour until golden brown, which creates a crispy exterior yet a juicy, succulent interior. Served with a squeeze of lemon or a tangy aioli, fried soft-shell crabs are a true delight.
The shedding shell process is fascinating and occurs several times a year. During the shedding period, the crab hides in the sand to avoid predators until their new shell hardens. This brief window of vulnerability is when they are harvested, providing a limited but much sought-after treat for seafood lovers.
Blue Crabs
Grilling is another excellent way to enjoy these crabs. A simple marinade of olive oil, garlic, and fresh herbs enhances the sweetness of the crab. Grilled to perfection, they can be served over a fresh salad or as part of a seafood platter, making for a light yet flavorful meal.Here is an excellent and scrumptious recipe from a 2012 edition of the New York Food Journal which is divine.
Soft-shell crabs are a treat for the palate, not to mention their essential nutrients. They are rich in protein, omega-3 fatty acids, and various vitamins and minerals, making them a healthy addition to any diet.
The seasonal and highly perishable, soft-shell crabs are a fleeting pleasure, best enjoyed fresh. Ask any seafood aficionado, and they will proclaim that the soft-shell crab’s unique flavor and texture make them a must-try. Soft-shell crabs are a delightful taste of the ocean’s bounty whether fried, grilled, or on a brioche bun.
If you are a crab lover, make sure you grab some soft-shells crabs between the end of April through mid-September.
These words come to mind when I think of the word Mother:
M is MUNIFICENT O is OPPORTUNITY T is TRUST H is HALCYON E is for ENDEARING R is for RESILIENCE
A Mother is generous with her time because she is a child’s biggest motivator. After all, GOD entrusted you with the opportunity of a lifetime to mold one of his creations. Therefore, a child trusts a mother to do the right thing; sometimes, that involves placing a child’s needs above personal needs. Every child needs halcyon days of youth. Remember, a motherhood club is an endearing place that some never get to embrace, so wear that crown honorably. If you cannot be a mother for whatever reason, help carry the torch of one who has fallen because it takes a Village and sometimes a Vineyard to raise responsible kids in this world. Lastly, a mother needs to bounce back from tough times. Remember that a young, impressionable mind is watching your every step. Ensure you give that child the right tools to bounce back from anything life throws at their feet.
Ask any mother; motherhood is not for the weak, so be thrilled that you are honored today by those you paved the way for yesterday.
Don’t forget to remember all our Queens who have transitioned to the next realm. We love, honor, and, most of all, miss their essence and presence. Thank you, our beloved ancestor Queens, for paving our stones.
Spending a day at the beach is perfect for soaking up some much-needed sun. Rays from the sun can be incredibly rejuvenating, and spending time in the sun can boost your mood, energy, and Vitamin D levels. Of course, safety is essential when sunbathing, so be sure to wear sunscreen and take shade in a cabana or under a beach umbrella or tent when needed. Check out Business & Pleasure for some of the trendiest chic cabanas, tents, and umbrellas which offer tons of protection from the sun.
Life is a beach; I’m just playing in the sand..
Another great thing about the beach is the chance to swim in the ocean. The ocean is a vast and mysterious place, full of fascinating creatures and beautiful sights, so have fun, but always be aware of that factor. Whether you are a seasonal swimmer or dipping your toes in the water, like me, there is something magical about being in the ocean.
Perhaps, like me, you are looking for more active beach fun; if so, there are plenty of beach activities to enjoy. Indulge in a game of beach volleyball, build sandcastles, parasailing, or surfing. And, if you are really feeling adventurous, rent a kayak or paddleboard and explore the ocean from a new perspective.
Of course, spending a day at the beach is about more than just the activities. It is the perfect place and time to unwind and relax. Grab a great summer read, a beach blanket, and a delicious picnic spread, and enjoy the peaceful sound of the waves with no care in the world. If you are in the Hilton Head/Bluffton area and not in the mood for packing lunch or beach gear, check out coastalpicnicrentals.com and let them prepare your space on the beach for two glorious hours with lunch included. The catered lunch is scrumptious, and the beach setup is gorgeous. Or, if you are a social person, you can chat with other beach goers and make new dinner friends.
No matter how you spend your time at the beach, there is no denying that a day at the beach is a special and memorable experience. So, pack your sunscreen, grab your beach towel, and head to the beach for a day of fun, relaxation, and adventure.
Today, we celebrate ALL the men and women in uniforms that represent freedom for the citizens of the United States. Every day we wake up without foreign invasion is worthy of praying for the men and women that ensured that was a possibility. The magnitude of their bravery and service is unfathomable.
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Did you know that Memorial Day, formerly known as “Decoration Day” hails from Charleston, South Carolina? On May 1, 1865, former enslaved Union soldiers and missionaries removed the bodies of 257 Union soldiers who died in Confederate prisons from undignified mass graves and laid them to rest in proper graves as an act of gratitude for serving in the military. The soldiers deemed the day Decoration Day, which Americans now celebrate nationally. As we gather with friends and family and head to the beach or cookouts, remember the men and women who died so that we could have freedom.
So today, in memory of MANY, in honor of ALL, THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE!
Mothers are an incredible
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Each of our lives for a
Reason.
A mother frames our story. She is the first person we meet and love and the last person we cry out for. A mother is the essence of our being.
Today we salute amazing Queens who love unconditionally and endlessly and support us each step of the way through endless sacrifices.
